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We have been married for over 16 years and have one son between us that is 14 years old. My husband had two affairs. The last one over a year ago the other one two years before that one. It was very painful. He says he loves me very much and doesnt want to ever leave me. I havent been wanting to make love with him other than to service him. I still love him (sometimes I dont want to) and I do have conflicting thoughts about trust, love, convenience, etc. I wondered if there is a book out there that will help me. Right now with the economy, we are hurting financially and dont have the funds to see a counselor. I know you dont have much to go on but hopefully you have something that will help both of us or at least me.
Thanks
Try From Anger to Intimacy by Dr Smalley and Ted Cunningham. GREAT Stuff. I think there is a video (if your husband doesn't like to read much – ha!!) and a workbook. There are some great lessons in healing and a chapter specifically about getting past the anger and mistrust after an affair.
Hope it helps!