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Posted on 24 December 2009. Tags: communication, couples communication, marriage counseling, michael smalley
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I agree wholeheartedly, but sometimes that can backfire too. I know from experience. I did this w/a family member & I got told “how can you ask me that, you should know what I want”. Then I would get or do something I thought this person would want and was told “you didn't get for me, you got for yourself hoping I wouldn't like it & give it to you.” I couldn't win. I hope the general population isn't like this-I'm not, because it frustrated me & I didn't want to put anyone else in that position & frustrate them. Please ask each other & please be receptive to the others questions.