http://smalley.cc/how-to-have-the-best-christmas-ever Expert advice on dating, marriage, and parenting from a name you trust - Smalley! Thu, 09 Sep 2010 00:22:00 -0500 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 http://smalley.cc/how-to-have-the-best-christmas-ever/comment-page-1#comment-63040 rhondahubbard Tue, 09 Feb 2010 03:03:55 +0000 http://www.gosmalley.com/?p=4428#comment-63040 I agree wholeheartedly, but sometimes that can backfire too. I know from experience. I did this w/a family member & I got told "how can you ask me that, you should know what I want". Then I would get or do something I thought this person would want and was told "you didn't get for me, you got for yourself hoping I wouldn't like it & give it to you." I couldn't win. I hope the general population isn't like this-I'm not, because it frustrated me & I didn't want to put anyone else in that position & frustrate them. Please ask each other & please be receptive to the others questions. I agree wholeheartedly, but sometimes that can backfire too. I know from experience. I did this w/a family member & I got told “how can you ask me that, you should know what I want”. Then I would get or do something I thought this person would want and was told “you didn't get for me, you got for yourself hoping I wouldn't like it & give it to you.” I couldn't win. I hope the general population isn't like this-I'm not, because it frustrated me & I didn't want to put anyone else in that position & frustrate them. Please ask each other & please be receptive to the others questions.

]]> http://smalley.cc/how-to-have-the-best-christmas-ever/comment-page-1#comment-61645 rhondahubbard Mon, 08 Feb 2010 22:03:55 +0000 http://www.gosmalley.com/?p=4428#comment-61645 I agree wholeheartedly, but sometimes that can backfire too. I know from experience. I did this w/a family member & I got told "how can you ask me that, you should know what I want". Then I would get or do something I thought this person would want and was told "you didn't get for me, you got for yourself hoping I wouldn't like it & give it to you." I couldn't win. I hope the general population isn't like this-I'm not, because it frustrated me & I didn't want to put anyone else in that position & frustrate them. Please ask each other & please be receptive to the others questions. I agree wholeheartedly, but sometimes that can backfire too. I know from experience. I did this w/a family member & I got told “how can you ask me that, you should know what I want”. Then I would get or do something I thought this person would want and was told “you didn't get for me, you got for yourself hoping I wouldn't like it & give it to you.” I couldn't win. I hope the general population isn't like this-I'm not, because it frustrated me & I didn't want to put anyone else in that position & frustrate them. Please ask each other & please be receptive to the others questions.

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