In my private practice, I’ve often heard couples state that they never argue—and they make this statement proudly. When I hear this proclamation, I see a “red flag” being waved in front of me. The truth is that couples are going to have conflicts—it’s to be expected in your relationship. So, when there are no arguments in your marriage, it may very well be that the two of you don’t feel comfortable enough with one another to have a disagreement.
As a relationships expert in the public eye, I see one of my roles as helping to enlighten you as to the accurate information about you and your mate. When you have solid information, you’re better equipped to have the best relationship possible. And so, in this article I want to present you with facts and clarify some myths you may have. If I can help you with greater understanding, you will hopefully share a much more satisfying life with one another.
Unexpected Problems
So, why do I say that conflicts are bound to happen in your relationship? If you think about it, it really does make sense. When you’re involved with someone regularly and that someone is a person with whom you are close, your emotions get entangled. When something problematic arises, emotions are likely to get triggered. Accompanying your emotions will also be a bodily reaction because your body is designed to help you deal with stress. So, at the very least, when you experience negative emotions, hormones will be released.
