How is your marriage? Â Is it just good enough? Â On a scale from 1 to 10 (1 being miserable and 10 being awesome) where would you rank your marriage today? Think seriously about these questions because they are important to the overall satisfaction of your marriage. Â If you do not know where you are, how will you ever get anywhere? Â Couples do not ask each other enough where their marriage is on a scale from 1 to 10.
No matter where your rank is, do not panic, just take note of the score and then ask what needs to happen for the marriage to get better. Â You are your own marriage manual and only you know what it will take to improve the marriage for you. Â So ask yourself how it’s going and then do something about it. Â Stop waiting for your spouse to change, do some changing on your own and see how that impacts your marriage. Â Why sit on the sideline when you can be in the game of becoming the kind of spouse you want to be married to.
