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	<title>Expert advice on dating, marriage, and parenting &#187; Beautiful Things</title>
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		<title>The best Father&#8217;s Day present ever!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 02:10:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My youngest son, David, just handed me my Father&#8217;s Day present (only a few hours early) and said, &#8220;I am the only one in the world that could have done these drawings!&#8221;  The first one he drew was this one (which he named &#8220;Trader&#8221;):

The second one he drew was this one (which he aptly [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My youngest son, David, just handed me my Father&#8217;s Day present (only a few hours early) and said, &#8220;I am the only one in the world that could have done these drawings!&#8221;  The first one he drew was this one (which he named &#8220;Trader&#8221;):</p>
<p><a href="http://www.gosmalley.com/images/Trader.png"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3329" title="Trader" src="http://www.gosmalley.com/images/Trader.png" alt="Trader" width="269" height="406" /></a></p>
<p>The second one he drew was this one (which he aptly named &#8220;Triangles of King Traders&#8221;):</p>
<p><a href="http://www.gosmalley.com/images/Triangles-of-King-Traders.png"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3330" title="Triangles-of-King-Traders" src="http://www.gosmalley.com/images/Triangles-of-King-Traders.png" alt="Triangles-of-King-Traders" width="433" height="316" /></a></p>
<p>All I can say is this, David is the only one in the world that I would even care about to ever receive a drawing from. Â What a Father&#8217;s Day present!</p>
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		<title>What a six year old would do as President</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 21:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A kid at my son&#8217;s school said the following when asked what he would do if he were president. 
&#8220;I would show a commercial of Trinity Lutheran Church, and then a commercial about cheetos, so everyone would believe in Jesus and eat cheetos.&#8221;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A kid at my son&#8217;s school said the following when asked what he would do if he were president. </p>
<p>&#8220;I would show a commercial of Trinity Lutheran Church, and then a commercial about cheetos, so everyone would believe in Jesus and eat cheetos.&#8221;</p>
<p>If that is not the funniest thing you&#8217;ve heard today then I want you to post it so I can laugh even harder than I did when I read that kid&#8217;s presidential dreams.</p>
<p>(sent from my iPhone)  </p>
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		<title>The Smalley family Christmas 2008 video is here!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 12:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Great Posts]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I want to thank all the little people who made this project a reality&#8230;mainly my wife   Amy and I had such a fun time putting this together (and by fun, I mean that I complained and she begged me to put it together). But the end product truly is a cool deal.  I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I want to thank all the little people who made this project a reality&#8230;mainly my wife <img src='http://smalley.cc/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Amy and I had such a fun time putting this together (and by fun, I mean that I complained and she begged me to put it together). But the end product truly is a cool deal.  I love Apple for making this process ridiculously easy.</p>
<p>I hope you all enjoy this video filled with pictures and movies from 2008.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">(just double click on the video image to make it play)</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><p><a href="http://smalley.cc/the-smalley-family-christmas-2008-video-is-here"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p></p>
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		<title>A marriage and family guy goes to Zimbabwe</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 15:27:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[peer pressure]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[For those of you who want to pray for me and my friend Casey as we travel to Zimbabwe, I thought it might be cool to post my schedule so you could pray about specific things. Â The following is an email from Chris, one of my new Zimbabwean friends, and I think you will see [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/harare-capital-of-zimbabwe.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1439" title="Harare, the capital of Zimbabwe" src="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/harare-capital-of-zimbabwe.jpg" alt="" width="290" height="218" /></a>For those of you who want to pray for me and my friend Casey as we travel to Zimbabwe, I thought it might be cool to post my schedule so you could pray about specific things. Â The following is an email from Chris, one of my new Zimbabwean friends, and I think you will see why I&#8217;m so excited about this opportunity!<span id="more-1438"></span></p>
<blockquote><p>Â </p>
<p>Hi Michael and Casey,</p>
<p>We are in full gear and very excited about your visit. I&#8217;ve been asked to touch base about the general program so you know what we are planning.</p>
<p>Everything is in full swing for the pastors/leaders and wives day seminar, hosted by a church called River of Life. We are targeting pastors, leaders and their families. two morning sessions: the leaders marraige; and the leaders family/kids. Often there is little time, energy, passion left for the home front. Often too, kids get the last shuffle when it comes to dad&#8217;s time and input. &#8220;What do I gain if I win the whole world to Christ but lose my own family in the process!&#8221;</p>
<p>Afternoon free.</p>
<p>Same night, Thursday, is our premier event, a couples dinner at the Miekels hotel. Full dinner, music by Heartsong, Zimbabwe&#8217;s best contemporary christian band, and you speaking for about 35 minutes. We hope to attract half the couples being unchurched and really encourage them to attend the Saturday seminar.</p>
<p>friday morning is free with a visit planned to Bally Waughn, a game park about 25 miles out of town.</p>
<p>Friday evening we have a youth rally scheduled at Central Baptist Church, various groups invited. Theme is open to you. Could be peer pressure; overcoming sexual temptation; marks of true love; (if you want to handle principles of dating ( term we don&#8217;t really use here in ZIM) I suggest you contact a local pastor Gary Cross for some input as our black kids particularly, have a unique system and problem).</p>
<p>Saturday is our couples seminar with three sessions, two am and one after lunch. Our church, Baptist Bible Church is hosting. We suggest the morning sessions focus on marriage issues and the afternoon on discipline, passing the blessing, kids, family, whatever.</p>
<p>Sunday am we could split the two of you. Casey could speak at one church and you Michael at BBC (ours). What do you think? Do you then want to speak or preach at a black church using an interpretor? A special opportunity and experience? It might be quite a heavy day as we then move to our final, packed out combined church rally at Northside Community Church, hosted by Gary Cross and with worship by Heartsong.</p>
<p>Monday we travel by van to Gweru and Antelope Park. It is an amazing place where we can walk with lions, ride elephants, fish, game view etc. I am trying to get the local pastors to organise a special dinner much like the Thursday night for Gweru&#8217;s community. Not sure yet. We sleep the night and travel back to Harare (3 hours) on Tue in time to catch flights back home.</p>
<p>Hope this helps.</p>
<p>Are you going to miss your elections? Not to worry. I already know who is going to win! We are living in facinating days aren&#8217;t we?</p>
<p>Much love in Christ,</p>
<p>Chris.</p>
<p>ps You are both staying in our home in Harare. We want you to share our lives and get to know us a bit. Hope you don&#8217;t mind my snoring and sharing a room with our whole family&#8230;we have seven kids sleep on the floor next to our bed (we&#8217;ll let you and Casey have the bed)&#8230;but don&#8217;t worry, we&#8217;ll put the sheep outside while you are with us!</p>
<p>pps. bring some spending money for Antelope Park. We might need to pay for accomodation and activities. $250 should cover it, and I&#8217;ll try to get it as free as I can! We know the owners!</p>
<p>pps. only kidding about the sharing of one room. Sort of. We don&#8217;t have seven kids either!</p>
<p>Â </p></blockquote>
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		<title>Bruises and Baby Squirrels</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 20:40:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This last weekend I was not feeling very well. I had managed to snag the newest flu bug, but couldnâ€™t bear to sit inside while the few remaining bits of seasonal warmth faded under the approaching blanket of fall. I pulled a chair out on the deck, closed my eyes, and tilted my head towards [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This last weekend I was not feeling very well. I had managed to snag the newest flu bug, but couldnâ€™t bear to sit inside while the few remaining bits of seasonal warmth faded under the approaching blanket of fall. I pulled a chair out on the deck, closed my eyes, and tilted my head towards the sun. Just then, a sharp noise pierced the air. I couldnâ€™t see where the cry was coming from so I decided to get up and poke around. It didnâ€™t take long to discover that a baby squirrel had fallen from a tree and lodged himself in between the two panels of my fence. Carefully, I pulled him out and laid him in an old shoe box.<br />
On Monday morning I called the vet down the street and was promptly told to call the â€œsquirrel ladyâ€.  Amazed that there was actually someone labeled â€œthe squirrel ladyâ€ I chuckled to myself and dialed her number. Honestly, I wasnâ€™t sure what to expect but, a bubbly, courteous and extremely professional woman answered the phone. She gathered some details about my little friend and asked if he had any brothers or sisters. â€œI donâ€™t think soâ€ I said, and explained that he had simply fallen from the tree.<br />
â€œSounds like an orphaned nest.â€ She said â€œThere are probably a few more little guys up there. They are getting hungry and starting to wander from the nest. You should try to get a ladder up there to get the rest of them before they fall.â€<br />
I headed back outside to listen, and it wasnâ€™t long before another cry echoed from high in the tree. I knocked on my neighborâ€™s door to ask about a ladder, but no one was home. Worried and bewildered, I went back to the tree and peered up.  The cry grew more and more intense and time was passing quickly. I knew that if I did not do something fast, it would probably mean tragedy for the little guy. So, I decided to climb the tree myself! I changed clothes, pulled on some â€œalligator hunterâ€ gloves and grabbed a bag to collect whoever I found.<br />
Carefully I climbed up a chair, hoisted myself onto the fence, and precariously wedged myself into an arm of the tree.  I slowly made my way up, hoping beyond hope that I would somehow be able to make it back down again! It soon became clear that I was not going to be able to reach the nest safely by myself. I stopped to plot the next course of action, when suddenly my eye caught a glimpse of a small, fuzzy, creature clinging helplessly to a limb just a few feet from me. He began to cry in panicked outbursts, no doubt, giving away any remaining energy. Gently, I pried him from the branch and began my decent.<br />
Once I got down and set him inside the box with his brother I assessed the damage. My arms and legs were covered in scratches and bruises, and leaves and small sticks had lodged themselves in my hair. Then it dawned on me, I had risked life and limb, not to mention an extremely high deductible on my health insurance for the sake of a squirrel!<br />
So, what made me do it?  What made me cast aside work and safety to call, search, and climb? Really, I think anyone with a heart would have done the same, but this really got me thinking.<br />
Why donâ€™t we extend the same urgency and self sacrifice for the hurting, starving souls around us? Literally, there are orphaned, helpless and hungry people all over. They need hope and peace that only God he can offer. They hang dangerously over the edge of uncertainty and death, and try desperately to find a comfort that will last. They have wandered far from the source of safety and are in need of someone to place personal wellbeing, agenda, and safety aside to rescue them.<br />
How risky are you? Would you have climbed the tree or would you have ignored the plea? How much more important is the life of a human being?<br />
I urge you to listen intently to your surroundings. Is there someone who needs your attention? Is there someone who has wondered from safety and is trying desperately to keep from falling? Time is running out and souls are in danger. Today, do something risky for the sake of eternity!</p>
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		<title>Psalms for the soul</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 00:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are psalms for every type of situation, emotion, and need. Here are eight categories of psalms and some beloved psalms that fit in those categories. These psalms form a â€œSchool of Prayer,â€ teaching us the basic types of prayer. You can pray these psalms or use them as guides to write your own similar [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/309718307_d80f319de3.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1374" title="309718307_d80f319de3" src="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/309718307_d80f319de3-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="270" height="203" /></a>There are psalms for every type of situation, emotion, and need. Here are eight categories of psalms and some beloved psalms that fit in those categories. These psalms form a â€œSchool of Prayer,â€ teaching us the basic types of prayer. You can pray these psalms or use them as guides to write your own similar psalm:<span id="more-1373"></span>Read the rest <a href="http://www.aacc.net/2008/10/15/psalms-for-the-soul/">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>McCain and Palin give a great example on how to treat others</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 18:38:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is an excerpt from the Rush Limbaugh show when Rush spoke to a caller:  
RUSH: Kurt in Pittsburgh , hello, sir. Â Nice to have you on the EIB Network, and how about the Steelers defense?
CALLER: Â How about those Steelers, huh?
RUSH: Â How about that?
CALLER: Â Hey, listen, Rush, longtime listener, first-time caller, one of those [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/image_3.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1356 alignleft" title="McCain and his wife Cindy" src="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/image_3-300x217.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="217" /></a>Here is an excerpt from the Rush Limbaugh show when Rush spoke to a caller:  <span id="more-1355"></span></p>
<blockquote><p>RUSH: Kurt in Pittsburgh , hello, sir. Â Nice to have you on the EIB Network, and how about the Steelers defense?</p>
<p>CALLER: Â How about those Steelers, huh?</p>
<p>RUSH: Â How about that?</p>
<p>CALLER: Â Hey, listen, Rush, longtime listener, first-time caller, one of those Bible, family, gun clingers from western Pennsylvania .</p>
<p>RUSH: Â Thank you.</p>
<p>CALLER: Â And I wanted to share a story with you. Â A week ago last Saturday we went to the Palin-McCain rally in Washington , Pennsylvania , was the day after he announced her, and we have a five-year-old daughter with Down syndrome, and we made a sign that said: &#8220;We Love Kids with Down Syndrome.&#8221; So when they pulled in in their bus the sign did catch their, McCain and Palin and the rest of their family, it caught their eye, we could tell, they gave us a thumbs-up from the bus, so we were all excited just by that &#8211;</p>
<p>RUSH: Â Wait, wait, wait. Â Who gave you the thumbs up, McCain and Palin?</p>
<p>CALLER: Â McCain, Palin, Cindy McCain, we could see them from the bus. We were in a position where we had eye contact with them &#8211;</p>
<p>RUSH: Â Oh, cool!</p>
<p>CALLER: Â My wife was holding our daughter.</p>
<p>RUSH: Â Very, very, very cool.</p>
<p>CALLER: Â It was really cool, Rush. I was like, &#8220;Wow, that&#8217;s awesome,&#8221; because I love Governor Palin and so I thought that&#8217;s really neat. Â So then we moved around as the bus was getting ready to pull out, we kind of</p>
<p>positioned ourselves so we could just wave them on and a Secret Service agent came up to us and said, &#8220;Hey, can you come with us?&#8221; Â I was like, &#8220;Do we have a choice?&#8221;</p>
<p>RUSH: (laughing) You shouldn&#8217;t have worried. Â It&#8217;s not the Clinton administration.</p>
<p>CALLER: Right. So we accompanied them up the hill, we went right to the bus, where it was, and Governor Palin, Senator McCain, Cindy, Todd Palin, they&#8217;re all standing there. We&#8217;re in this inner circle with just us and them, and the Secret Service agent, and they came right up to us and thanked us for coming out, said they loved our sign, and Governor Palin immediately said, &#8220;May I hold your daughter?&#8221; and our daughter Chloe, who&#8217;s five, went right to her, and I have some pictures I&#8217;d love to send you maybe when I&#8217;m done here, but Governor Palin was hugging Chloe, and then her little daughter brought their baby Trig who has Down syndrome from the bus, he was napping, and Chloe went right over and kissed him on the cheek, and my son Nolan who&#8217;s nine, he thanked her.</p>
<p>RUSH: This is amazing.</p>
<p>CALLER: I will send you all the stuff, Senator McCain was talking to my son, and we thanked him for his service, and he asked my son if he wanted to see the bus, and we were hanging out and it was very surreal. I felt like we could have had a pizza and a beer with them, they were so warm.</p>
<p>RUSH: You know what? I want to put you on hold. I want Snerdley to give you our super-secret, known-only-to-three-people here, e-mail address.</p>
<p>CALLER: I will send you everything, Rush.</p>
<p>RUSH: And then could you send us these pictures? Would you mind if we put them on the website?</p>
<p>CALLER: I would be honored, and my main thing is they are warm, kind, genuine people, and they represent the best of this country.</p>
<p>RUSH: Â That&#8217;s right. Â And when you send these pictures, make sure you identify them. Â I mean, we&#8217;ll know Palin and McCain, of course. Â Identify yourselves.</p>
<p>CALLER: Â I will, I will identify everybody in the picture, Rush, and God bless you for being a beacon of hope and truth in this country.</p>
<p>RUSH: Â Oh, no, no. Â It&#8217;s nothing, it&#8217;s nothing. Â You&#8217;re doing the Lord&#8217;s work.</p>
<p>CALLER: Â Well, we&#8217;re very blessed and I want people to know what a blessing it is to have a child with Down syndrome. These kids, they&#8217;re angels.</p>
<p>RUSH: Â That&#8217;s the thing. Â There&#8217;s always good to be found in everything that happens. Â It may be a while before it reveals itself.</p>
<p>CALLER: Â Absolutely.</p>
<p>CALLER: Â Right, and when she hugged my daughter I said, here&#8217;s the difference, this candidate embraces life and all its limitless possibilities.</p>
<p>RUSH: Â All right.</p>
<p>CALLER: Â That&#8217;s what she is.</p>
<p>RUSH: Â Terrific, okay, I gotta run here, but I&#8217;m going to put you on hold.</p>
<p>CALLER: Â Thank you, Rush.</p>
<p>RUSH: Â Thank you, Kurt. Â I really appreciate it.</p>
<p>END TRANSCRIPT</p></blockquote>
<p>Do you see how people react when we make them a priority and treat them with honor! What a great example of just taking a moment to share in someone&#8217;s life.  I know that McCain and Palin are in the middle of a very tough race, but still, this feels pretty authentic, especially since they did it privately.</p>
<p>Here are the pics the caller talked about:</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/image_2.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-1357" title="Palin and McCain and family" src="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/image_2-300x217.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="217" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/image_1.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-1358" title="McCain and young boy." src="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/image_1-300x230.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="230" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/image.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-1359" title="Palin and young girl." src="http://www.gosmalley.com/theblog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/image-300x266.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="266" /></a></p>
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		<title>Stitches of Significance</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 19:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The other day I knelt at the foot of my bed utterly frustrated and confused. I needed answers, and I longed for clarity. With tears rolling down my cheeks, I bowed my head to pray.  As I did, a gentle whisper asked me to open my eyes. I looked up to see a beautifully [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other day I knelt at the foot of my bed utterly frustrated and confused. I needed answers, and I longed for clarity. With tears rolling down my cheeks, I bowed my head to pray.  As I did, a gentle whisper asked me to open my eyes. I looked up to see a beautifully knit blanket now wrapped around my fingers. It had been kicked to the bottom of my bed the night before, and, in my distracted and urgent plea, I had unknowingly entangled my hands within its soft folds. Deep in thought, I ran my finger tips along the carefully threaded details.</p>
<p>â€œWhat do you see?â€  Came the quiet voice.<br />
â€œWellâ€, I said, â€œI see many different colors and patterns. â€œ<br />
â€œIsnâ€™t it beautiful?â€  Was the reply.<br />
â€œOh yes, it looks like there was a lot of time and effort used to create it.â€ I reveled.</p>
<p>â€œThere was.â€ It spoke againâ€¦â€ Look at the individual sections. Each part comes together to create something beautiful.  Individually, every square looks different and a little disordered, but once they are sewn together they make sense.  There is a specific purpose for each element, and every single stitch was planned long before hand to fill a unique place.</p>
<p>I continued to examine it, and playfully poked my fingers through the small holes in the fabric.<br />
â€œYou see, your life is like this blanket. You may see only sections of chaos and unrelated segments, yet I see necessary pieces of an intricate tapestry. I am taking the good and bad, and knitting them together to form an exquisite pattern of significance.  Where you feel holes, I see components of a bigger picture. When you see dead ends, I see opportunity for new and different colors. When those around you are cold, I am giving you a tool to adequately warm them.&#8221;</p>
<p>A sense of peace passed over me, and I sat back to ponder a bit longer. How incredible is it that our God loves us as He does! He doesnâ€™t haphazardly look at our lives and simply take the pieces as they fall. No, Instead He lovingly and painstakingly works to mold and craft something beautiful and special from each strand of experience. At times when life doesnâ€™t make sense, we can know that His plans for us are good, and that he does indeed have a purpose behind each part! What a delightful portrait of His grace and mercy!</p>
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		<title>September 11th</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 15:13:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kirsten Wakie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a New Yorker, I did not feel it appropriate that today go by without mention.  It is stunning to me that seven years have gone by since that horrible day when our city and our nation were attacked.  In New York, the anniversary of 9/11 is memorialized in several different places throughout [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a New Yorker, I did not feel it appropriate that today go by without mention.  It is stunning to me that seven years have gone by since that horrible day when our city and our nation were attacked.  In New York, the anniversary of 9/11 is memorialized in several different places throughout the city and in several different ways.  There are moments of silence for when each of the planes hit the towers, followed by moments of silence for when each tower collapsed.  At the World Trade Center site, the names of each and every person lost is read and flowers are placed in the area.  For those of us that live here, it is a very emotional day.</p>
<p>As I drove to work today, I listened to a popular local radio show.  They were remembering that day too, by taking phone calls and playing songs.  At some point a few of the phone callers commented that they thought too big a deal was made of this anniversary and that it was time â€œto move onâ€.  The radio personalities struggled with this mentality greatly, not understanding how anyone could feel that way. I agree with them.</p>
<p>September 11th is a moment in our history that our country will never forget.  We all know exactly where we were and what we were doing that day.  I was on my way to work when the first plane hit and at that moment, we all thought it was an accident.  I got to my office and turned on the television only to see the second plane hit a short time later.  By then we knew.  Stunned silence followed for quite a while as we watched mesmerized at what was happening.  My co-worker had a son in those buildings who called to say he was told to stay put; then called again to say they were evacuating.  Thankfully, he got out.  It all seemed surreal as we made phone calls checking on people. The first thought for most of us was our family.  We wanted them close.  My youngest son was nine at the time and my dad was able to get him out of school and bring him to me.  My normally active, joyful young man sat in a corner for hours unable to comprehend what had happened and why anyone would do this to us.  My oldest had just begun his first year of high school and I had to go to the school to get him.  While the school was organized in dismissing students, it was still total chaos as people scrambled to assemble their family.</p>
<p>We opened our church doors to anyone that felt they needed comfort and held a service  that night so we could comfort each other.  Our congregation had a police officer who was at the site that came into church that night with the dust still on his clothes and in his eyes.  A construction worker had watched in horror from a building close by as people jumped from the towers rather than be burned.  He came to service in shock. </p>
<p>Many New Yorkers lost someone they loved and many of us know someone who did. This loss of life changed all of our lives forever.  There is no way we can ever forget what happened and no way we should ever ignore this day.  To think we should just â€œmove onâ€ is a travesty to the memories of all those innocent people that died and those that loved them.   Just watch CNN while they read the names of the almost 3,000 people that died that day.</p>
<p>September 11th, every year, needs to be a day of remembrance and of prayer.  We need to pray for those families have to deal, not only with the loss, but the way it happened.  And we need to pray for our country!  No matter where you live in these United States, please remember this day in your hearts each and every year!</p>
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		<title>Dr. Randy Pausch &#8211; learn how to live while alive!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 19:06:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you haven&#8217;t watched this video yet &#8211; please take a look.Â  It is the last lecture of Dr. Randy Pausch because he is dying of pancreatic cancer.Â  He has a young family consisting of three kids and a wife.Â  This will truly help you appreciate life and also learn how to live while while [...]]]></description>
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<p>If you haven&#8217;t watched this video yet &#8211; please take a look.Â  It is the last lecture of Dr. Randy Pausch because he is dying of pancreatic cancer.Â  He has a young family consisting of three kids and a wife.Â  This will truly help you appreciate life and also learn how to live while while alive.</p>
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		<title>Five great lessons to make you think about the way we treat people</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 15:02:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[1 &#8211; First Important Lesson &#8211; Cleaning Lady. 
During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions until I read the last one:
What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>1 &#8211; First Important Lesson &#8211; Cleaning Lady. </strong></p>
<p>During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions until I read the last one:</p>
<p>What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?</p>
<p>Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50&#8217;s, but how would I know her name?  I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade.</p>
<p>â€œAbsolutely,â€ said the professor. â€œIn your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say &#8216;hello.â€</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.</p>
<p><strong>2. &#8211; Second Important Lesson &#8211; Pickup in the Rain</strong></p>
<p>One night, at 11:3 0 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride.</p>
<p>Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.  A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 60s. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab.</p>
<p>She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man&#8217;s door. To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A special note was attached..</p>
<p>It read: â€œThank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only my clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband&#8217;s bedside just before he passed away. God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others.â€</p>
<p>Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole</p>
<p><strong>3 &#8211; Third Important Lesson &#8211; Always remember those who serve. </strong></p>
<p>In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.</p>
<p>â€œHow much is an ice cream sundae?â€ he asked.</p>
<p>â€œFifty cents,â€ replied the waitress.</p>
<p>The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it.</p>
<p>â€œWell, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?â€ he inquired.</p>
<p>By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient.</p>
<p>â€œThirty-five cents,â€ she brusquely replied.</p>
<p>The little boy again counted his coins.</p>
<p>&#8216;I&#8217;ll have the plain ice cream,&#8217; he said.</p>
<p>The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies.</p>
<p>You see, he couldn&#8217;t have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.</p>
<p><strong>4 &#8211; Fourth Important Lesson. &#8211; The obstacle in Our Path</strong></p>
<p>In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king&#8217;s wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way.</p>
<p>Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Up on approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many of us never understand!</p>
<p>Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.</p>
<p><strong>5 &#8211; Fifth Important Lesson &#8211; Giving When it Counts</strong></p>
<p>Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare &amp; serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness. The doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister.</p>
<p>I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying, â€œYes I&#8217;ll do it if it will save her.â€ As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded.</p>
<p>He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, â€œWill I start to die right away?â€</p>
<p>Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her but he had chosen to save her anyway.</p>
<p>Now you have 2 choices.</p>
<ol>
<li>Delete this email, or</li>
<li>Forward it to people you care about.</li>
</ol>
<p>I hope that you will choose number two.</p>
<p>&#8216;Work like you don&#8217;t need the money, love like you&#8217;ve never been hurt, and dance like you do when nobody&#8217;s watching.&#8217;</p>
<p>NOW more than ever &#8211; Peace&#8230;Pass It On</p>
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		<title>The joy of marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2008 11:58:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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Hume Cronyn and Jessica Tandy, the First Couple of American Theater shared stage, screen and a stable marriage for 52 years.  We should all want to be this happy with our spouse after 52 years!
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		<title>The ever present joy of children</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jan 2008 13:07:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve waited far too long to share this story with you all.  But a few days before Halloween my wife dyed her hair black, and I mean a black that would make Elvira jealous! When she got home her first question was, &#8220;Do you like it?&#8221; Which, of course, is a totally loaded question [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve waited far too long to share this story with you all.  But a few days before Halloween my wife dyed her hair black, and I mean a black that would make Elvira jealous! When she got home her first question was, &#8220;Do you like it?&#8221; Which, of course, is a totally loaded question that any honest, God fearing man would never&#8230;ever answer honestly.  So I said, &#8220;Absolutely!&#8221;</p>
<p>Five minutes hadn&#8217;t gone by when my 9-year old daughter, Reagan, came prancing in to the kitchen where my wife was casually standing trying to admire her new hair color in the reflection of the refrigerator.  Amy turned to face Reagan, to check out what she thought of the new hair color and Reagan stopped dead in her tracks.  She didn&#8217;t say a word, which left time for the other two kids to come flying in to the kitchen.  The boys rounded the corner and came to a sliding halt when they saw their mother, and her new hair color.  All three kids just stood their trying to figure out who this strange woman was standing in their kitchen.</p>
<p>Amy  broke the silence to ask what they all thought of her new hair color.  I tried to caution the boys, but I was too late.  They immediately started freaking out about Amy&#8217;s choice in hair color.  But to my amazement, Reagan stood firmly in the center of the kitchen and pleaded for the boys to stop teasing mommy.  She then said one of the most classic lines in Reagan&#8217;s young life, &#8220;Stop teasing mommy&#8230;she only did this for Halloween.  She&#8217;ll change it back in a few days.&#8221;</p>
<p>I fell to the floor laughing.  I couldn&#8217;t help myself.  Thankfully, Amy laughed as well.</p>
<p>Amy&#8217;s hair is back to normal today&#8230;after her brief stint as Elvira&#8217;s hair backup.</p>
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		<title>If you ever doubted my intelligence</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Dec 2007 17:24:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just notice the intricacies of my son&#8217;s delivery.  It will blow you mind!

I know, I know, you&#8217;re very impressed.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just notice the intricacies of my son&#8217;s delivery.  It will blow you mind!</p>
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<p>I know, I know, you&#8217;re very impressed.</p>
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		<title>Isolation</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 14:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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God created us for relationships so we must resist the temptation to isolate ourselves when we are hurt by them.
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<p>God created us for relationships so we must resist the temptation to isolate ourselves when we are hurt by them.</p>
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		<title>The beauty of Alaska</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2007 01:10:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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If we can&#8217;t see God in this place, we must not be looking at all.
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<p align="center">If we can&#8217;t see God in this place, we must not be looking at all.</p>
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		<title>The power of a positive word</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2007 13:22:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You can never underestimate the power of a positive word for a child.  Reagan, my middle daughter, received a card recently from her student teacher.  When I got home from work the day she received it she jumped up in the air and couldn&#8217;t wait to read me her special card.  It [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can never underestimate the power of a positive word for a child.  Reagan, my middle daughter, received a card recently from her student teacher.  When I got home from work the day she received it she jumped up in the air and couldn&#8217;t wait to read me her special card.  It reads:</p>
<blockquote><p>Reagan, I must say &#8211; you are the sweetest, shiniest person I know!  What a joy to be around such a thoughtful and sensitive girl.  You always are kind to everyone no matter who they are, and that kind of attitude will take you far (she underlined far).  Keep reading and trying your best.  I know you will!  Sincerely&#8230;</p></blockquote>
<p>You would have thought that Reagan had won the lottery!  She couldn&#8217;t wait to read it to her brother, her mother, her father, and I believe she even read it over the phone to one of her grandparents!  Moments and thoughts like this can literally shape the future of a child.  What a gift this special student teacher gave my child &#8211; the gift of belief, encouragement, support and so much more.</p>
<p>Take the time to say or do something positive for a child (especially your own) today.  Just simply point out their value and preciousness as seen through the eyes of God.</p>
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		<title>Turning fire into life: A lesson from the Jackpine</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2007 22:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was camping many years ago as a small child, and took a nature class from a park ranger. We went on a beautiful and adventurous hike through the woods, examining all types of birds, rocks, rodents, and plants. A memorable highlight was learning about the Jackpine, a type of tree whose seeds can only [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was camping many years ago as a small child, and took a nature class from a park ranger. We went on a beautiful and adventurous hike through the woods, examining all types of birds, rocks, rodents, and plants. A memorable highlight was learning about the Jackpine, a type of tree whose seeds can only be released by the intense heat and devastation of a forest fire! As the rest of the woodland wilts and burns around it, the mighty Jack pine actually blossoms! Though the outside is badly injured, and much of its former life is laid to rest, the act of succumbing to its death, actually gives opportunity for future life to continue. From the decay and trauma comes a birth of potential and vibrance. I canÃ¢â‚¬â„¢t help but relate the treeÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s resilience and fortitude to the inner workings of the human heart. In my nearly 26 years of existence, I have seen my fair share of fire; initially, mercilessly threatening to destroy every trace of hope, joy, and vitality. But just when it looks like the damage is beyond repair, when life can no longer continue on my own accord, and death is certain; my God in Heaven, creator of my heart and soul, orchestrator of the past, present, and future, not only restores, but actually creates fresh life in the process! As I watch my former life; a forest built upon routine, control, and towering branches of so called success, collapse so easily against the flames of heart ache, disappointment, and questioning, the Lord is able to release my heart to seed into beautiful stalks of wisdom, character, and strength. Although we as humans naturally try to avoid pain at all costs; it is the vehicle that often produces the most worthwhile development. So, I urge you, as fire threatens, and heat begins to singe, allow the flames of trial, unavoidable circumstance, indiscretion, and mistakes, form the soil for hope and renewal. Embrace the fatality of former things, burned through the blessed flames, and claim the victory of power and control given by the grace and favor of God. For, it is when death eludes the state of self, that the Lord can then create an entirely new life. So, let Him take the dross of sorrow and the mire of mistakes, and fertilize your soul to form deep roots, capable of maturing and restoring in ways far more capable of your divine purpose! </p>
<p>I urge you to view the mistakes and trials of the past as stepping stones for growth. Let the past stay there, but let your future brim with freshness and vibrance, as the fires around you become the very mechanism of life!</p>
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		<title>Perspective</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Mar 2007 21:03:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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My son is down to the left and the children to the right are the little brother and sister of our adopted daughter from World Vision.
Now that&#8217;s perspective.
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<p align="left">My son is down to the left and the children to the right are the little brother and sister of our adopted daughter from <a href="http://www.worldvision.org/">World Vision</a>.</p>
<p align="left">Now that&#8217;s perspective.</p>
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