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	<title>The Official site of Gary Smalley, Michael and Amy Smalley, and Greg and Erin Smalley! &#187; Poll of the week</title>
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		<title>What is the primary role of a husband in marriage? (a new poll)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Sep 2011 11:47:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gary Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The role of a husband in marriage is important, but what do you think is the primary role of a husband? Read Ephesians 5:21-33 before you answer this week&#8217;s poll question (New Living Translation): Spirit-Guided Relationships: Wives and Husbands 21 And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 For wives, this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The role of a husband in marriage is important, but what do you think is the primary role of a husband? Read Ephesians 5:21-33 before you answer this week&#8217;s poll question (New Living Translation):</p>
<blockquote><p>Spirit-Guided Relationships: Wives and Husbands</p>
<p>21 And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.</p>
<p>22 For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church. 24 As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything.</p>
<p>25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word.t 27 He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. 28 In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. 29 No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church. 30 And we are members of his body.</p>
<p>31 As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.”t 32 This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one. 33 So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.</p></blockquote>
<p>Now let me know what you think by answering this week&#8217;s poll. Also, please leave any comments you might have. I always love a good discussion!</p>
<a href="http://polldaddy.com/poll/5480793">Take Our Poll</a>
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		<title>What has you stressed?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 23:56:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gary Smalley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stress causes many of our sicknesses! Stress is the &#8220;gap&#8221; between what you expect and what you are getting with each expectation from all of life. Your assignment today: write down your main expectations of self, others, money, work, etc. Then, write down from 0 to 10 how close or far you are from the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stress causes many of our sicknesses! Stress is the &#8220;gap&#8221; between what you expect and what you are getting with each expectation from all of life. Your assignment today: write down your main expectations of self, others, money, work, etc. Then, write down from 0 to 10 how close or far you are from the expectation. Your stress level is the gap. If you have a lot of big gaps, you are one stressed out person.</p>
<p>So what has you stressed out?</p>
<a href="http://polldaddy.com/poll/4490458">Take Our Poll</a>
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		<title>What stresses you out the most about the holidays?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Nov 2010 16:07:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So what gets you the most stressed out when you start thinking about the holidays? Also, feel free to leave us your feedback on what you do to overcome the stress.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So what gets you the most stressed out when you start thinking about the holidays? Also, feel free to leave us your feedback on what you do to overcome the stress.</p>
<a href="http://polldaddy.com/poll/4084860">Take Our Poll</a>
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		<title>What&#8217;s your love language?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2010 13:12:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[5 love languages]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I'm curious about which is your top love language.  So take the poll and let me know which of the 5 love languages is most important to you...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the greatest books written of all time is Gary Chapman&#8217;s &#8220;The Five Love Languages&#8221;. In this ground breaking book, Chapman helps us learn that our spouse (and of course overselves) have basically 5 love languages, or five unique ways that we experience love.  Quickly, the five love languages are:</p>
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<li>Acts of service</li>
<li>Quality time</li>
<li>Gifts</li>
<li>Physical touch</li>
<li>Words of affirmation</li>
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<p>I&#8217;m curious about which is your top love language.  So take the poll and let me know which of the 5 love languages is most important to you.</p>
<a href="http://polldaddy.com/poll/3358339">Take Our Poll</a>
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		<title>Calling all ladies! What do you want your husband to do?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 16:39:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[So ladies, what do you really want from your husband?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve just started a new series titled &#8220;About a Girl&#8221;: the definitive guide on how a man can love his wife for my church here in Spring (WoodsEdge)! I posted the first article today, you can read that <a href="http://smalley.cc/about-a-girl-a-guide-on-how-a-man-can-love-his-wife">here</a>.  But I thought I needed to offer a poll to see what you all think about what women really want.  So ladies, what do you really want from your husband?</p>
<p>LADIES ONLY PLEASE</p>
<a href="http://polldaddy.com/poll/2781408">Take Our Poll</a>
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		<title>The big contest!</title>
		<link>http://smalley.cc/the-big-contest</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2007 19:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are getting ready to launch a new marriage live event and curriculum series, but we need your help! Below is a survey with 4 possible titles, please choose the title you think is best for our new live event and curriculum series. If you don&#8217;t like any of them, or want to tweak one [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are getting ready to launch a new marriage live event and curriculum series, but we need your help! Below is a survey with 4 possible titles, please choose the title you think is best for our new live event and curriculum series. If you don&#8217;t like any of them, or want to tweak one of them slightly, feel free to click on the link that reads &#8220;Add an Answer&#8221; and then enter one of your own titles.</p>
<p>In one week we will choose a winner who will receive the live event DVD series! So good luck and happy voting <img src='http://smalley.cc/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Here is a sampling of some of the topics that will be covered in the new seminar and curriculum series:</p>
<p><strong>Renewing Spirituality</strong><br />
Learn to respect each otherĂ˘â‚¬â„˘s spiritual differences to connect on a spiritual level and grow closer together like never before.<br />
<strong>Anger</strong><br />
Learn how to communicate in your anger and open up the heart of someone youĂ˘â‚¬â„˘ve wounded through anger.<br />
<strong>Dealing with Expectations</strong><br />
Learn how to fulfill expectations in a way that actually honors your relationship instead of stressing it out!<br />
<strong>Redefining Men &#038; Women</strong><br />
Learn the real difference between men and women, how these affect your relationship, and how to become one despite your differences. You will discover why men need to be admired and successful and women want to be valued and cared for.</p>
<div>{democracy:17}</div>
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		<title>The importance of a weekly date night!</title>
		<link>http://smalley.cc/the-importance-of-a-weekly-date-night</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2007 10:35:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you know how important it is to date your mate? Probably not, because too few couples actually take the time to date! I&#8217;m tired of meeting with couples in my counseling office and hearing the same old story to the following question, &#8220;When was the last time you took your spouse out on a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you know how important it is to date your mate? Probably not, because too few couples actually take the time to date! I&#8217;m tired of meeting with couples in my counseling office and hearing the same old story to the following question, &#8220;When was the last time you took your spouse out on a date?&#8221;</p>
<p>The answers are varied but all of them point to the same problem&#8230;too many couples fall into the trap of datelessness.Ă‚Â  If you want to have a happy marriage than you must spend fun time together.Ă‚Â  Make it a priority to spend at least one night a week together having fun.</p>
<p>This doesn&#8217;t have to cost you any money, so all the cheap scates out there can just sit down and relax <img src='http://smalley.cc/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  A date night can consist of putting the kids down early and sitting out on the back porch and simply talking and laughing, or watching your favorite show together while snuggling on the couch.</p>
<p>The most important thing is that you put it on your schedule or it won&#8217;t ever happen!</p>
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<div>{democracy:16}</div>
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		<title>To spank or not to spank: that is the poll of the week</title>
		<link>http://smalley.cc/to-spank-or-not-to-spank-that-is-the-poll-of-the-week</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jan 2007 11:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Discipline for Kids]]></category>
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<div>{democracy:14}</div>
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		<title>Who was your favorite couple at the Red Carpet?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 11:20:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Smalley</dc:creator>
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